DIY Valentines Inspired Soy Wax Melts!

These fabulous DIY valentines inspired soy wax melts are perfect for giving your home a romantic vibe. They are quick and easy to make and also make lovely DIY Valentine gifts.

What do you need to make DIY Valentine inspired soy wax melts:

Most of the ingredients and equipment I have used to make these wax melts can be found on Amazon. For ease I have included text links to my preferred options.

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Soy wax flakes – The one I use is Golden Wax 494 Soy wax from Craftovator. This wax is specifically designed to use with moulds and has a maximum scent load of 10%. It gives a lovely smooth finish and it easy to remove from the moulds. Whatever wax you use make sure it’s a pillar wax, if not you will likely get frosting and melts may be damaged as you try and get them out the moulds!

Wax dye – I use a mixture of soy wax dye and mica powers to colour my wax melts. Using mica powder can give the soy wax melts a lovely pearlescent sheen and gives them a beautiful shimmering effect whilst melting.

Essential or fragrance oils – You can use either when making soy wax melts.

Fragrance oils are made in a laboratory, they tend to be the cheaper option and have an almost unlimited amount of scent options. For some Valentines scents why not try this You’re special set of 6 premium fragrance oils. Or why not try some scents similar to your favourite perfume such as these designer inspired scents from Craftovator.

If using fragrance oils I use 5ml per 100g of soy wax which gives off a lovely scent that isn’t too strong.

Essential oils are concentrated liquids, extracted from plant material. They tend to be more expensive, with a limited amount of scents available, however they are the natural option containing no artificial ingredients. If you are new to using essential oils then I recommend buying a starter set like this one and experiment mixing scents or buy ready mixed scents such as this romantic fragrances set. For some romantic essential oil recipes see further down this post.

Wax melt moulds – Wax moulds come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. For my valentines inspired soy wax melts I used these fabulous heart silicone moulds and these cute little mini heart moulds!

Other useful tools to make DIY soy wax melts:

Wax melting pot, double boiler or equivalent. I personally just use a heat proof plastic jug placed in a saucepan of water.

Spatula or spoon to stir the wax

Wax thermometer to keep a eye on the temperatures.

Rubbing alcohol and paper towels to clean the wax moulds after use.

A small measuring pipet is also useful for measuring correct amounts of essential oil.

Romantic essential oil blends:

For every 100g of soy wax I recommend using 5ml of essential oil. You can either use one particular scent or mix a few together to make your own blends. For some romantic inspired blends you could try the following recipes:

5ml = 100 drops although this isn’t an exact science. If you are just making soy wax melts for your own use it won’t really matter if its not exact.

Love Spell: 33 drops Patchouli, 33 drops Ylang Ylang and 33 drops Bergamot.

Spice it up: 55 drops Grapefruit, 30 drops Jasmine and 15 drops Black Pepper.

Love me tender: 45 drops Ylang Ylang, 35 drops Lavender and 20 drops Neroli.

Long Embrace: 55 drops Ylang Ylang, 30 drops Cinnamon Bark and 15 drops Ginger.

Galantines Day: 25 drops Clary Sage, 25 drops Ylang Ylang, 25 drops Lavender and 25 drops Geranium.

Best essential oils for celebrating love:

Ylang Ylang, clary Sage, bergamot, orange, jasmine, sandalwood, geranium and of course…ROSE

Things to note: Essential oils can be dangerous if not used correctly. They can cause skin irritation and although you may enjoy the aromas your pets may not! Always make sure you read any accompanying information with any oils that you buy and always keep wax melts away from children and animals!

How to make DIY soy wax melts:

The recipe and instructions below are enough to make around 12 wax melts depending on size of mould.

Add 100g of soy wax flakes to a double boiler and heat until melted. Be careful not to let the wax heat up above 190°F. If it does, don’t worry too much it just means that your wax melts may develop white specs, although they will still work fine.

You can also use a microwave, just pop wax in a microwavable container and heat on medium to high power for 30 seconds at at time, starring between each interval.

Once the wax has completely melted add the wax dye. I recommend gradually adding small amounts until you reach the desired colour.

Once the wax has cooled to around 150°F you can then add the 5ml of fragrance or essential oils. Once added stir continuously until the fragrance or essential oils are completely mixed within the wax.

You can then carefully pour the wax into the wax moulds and leave to harden in a cool place for a few hours or overnight. One cooled you can pop the wax melts out of the moulds and they are ready to use.

Homemade Valentine soy wax melts

How to use soy wax melts:

These homemade wax melts are really easy to use. Just pop 1 or 2 soy wax melts into your favourite wax melter then just sit back and relax whilst waiting for the lovely aromas to fill your room. Don’t be temped to use too many wax melts at a time as once melted they may overflow.

Wax melters come in a variety of shapes and sizes, electrical and non-electrical. However it’s important to use one that is specifically designed to use with wax melts or tarts. I personally love using the simple wax burners which use a tea light to gradually melt the wax.

You can continue to melt down the same wax until you feel that all the fragrance has disapated. To clean out your wax melter after use, simply wait for the melted wax to cool and scoop out and discard in a bin. You can then wipe down the wax holder with either a warm soapy cloth or some baby oil to get rid of any small traces of wax.

How to store homemade soy wax melts

How you store your homemade wax scents will affect how long the fragrance lasts. If stored correctly these DIY valentines inspired soy wax melts should last about a year, after this you may find that the fragrance is not as strong.

To get the most out of your homemade wax melts store them in an airtight container and keep them in a cool dark place. Don’t leave them in direct sunlight or next to heaters or cookers as the heat will warm them up slightly and they will start to loose there scent.

Giving homemade soy wax melts as gifts

These DIY soy wax melts also make great Valentine gifts. Just pop some in a cute sealable jar, add some ribbon and a gift tag and you have a perfect homemade gift. I used these lovely free downloadable gift tags from DIY Candy!

If you want to make your own gift tags I recommend using Avery Design & Print. You can design all your own gift tags or labels with their free templates and software. You can then download for free and print on your home printer.

Homemade valentine soy wax melt gifts

Final thoughts

Hope you have enjoyed this post and that it’s inspired you to make your own DIY Valentines inspired soy wax melts. If so, let me know in the comments below.


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Louise Xx


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